Anna

Anna, I posted a comment on your blog too. Here's my reply in case there are others out there trying to follow us on this journey. :)

Anna,
I am touched. You have nothing to worry about, especially after all these years.

Yes, it is true when all that went down I was upset. I was like WTF? To be honest, I wasn't that upset by what they said you said. I was mostly upset by the way everyone else reacted.

At the time, they knew me in real life and I thought they knew enough about me to know I wasn't going around printing off posts, talking about you, etc.

I was really pissed that I was deleted without even having a chance to tell my side of the story and to be honest, I was even more pissed they took your side when they had never met you and I had spent hours with them.

Plus it struck a nerve when the whole intent of what happened with S via B was because I was trying to get my sorry sack of a man to talk to your sorry sack of a man to treat you better.

All in all I was glad it happened because I got to see who was a true friend. Just so you know, T doesn't hate you. She was fiercely loyal to me and put herself out there for me. She was being this girl's best friend. She did what I would do for her and what I'd do for you now.

I am sorry if this situation has been weighing on your mind for any length of time. We should have talked it through before but I always felt you knew we were cool.

If we weren't cool, I would have never shown up at your door with T to help you when you needed friends to lean on, take you to the doctor, or have the friendship we have now.

Thank you for putting it out there. You exposed yourself and allowed yourself to be vulnerable. Trust me when I say we're good and that we've been good. We were good like a few days after it all went down. I love you. Huge Hugs...