Change of Plans & Timely Reminder

I went to bed really late, or should I say early this morning...like 4:30 AM. Yea, insomnia sucks. However, I did get the rest of the place cleaned up with only needing to make the bed with the freshly washed linens (love that!), run the Dyson over the crap ass apartment carpet, and take the trash to BFE this morning. About 10:00 AM, when I realized the sun was not going to make an appearance and either a sweater or sweatshirt would be needed to make the day a pleasant one, I call Pete to find out if we were still going with Plan A. You know, bring the girls over, go to the park/beach, have some fun times with the paint, glitter, glue...all my artsy tartsy crafty stash as he calls it. We're going with Plan B. I'm heading over there to bbq at his place with a few of our other friends. You mean I could have not cleaned up yesterday? I could have been a bum and gone to a friend's bbq/party or stayed in and read? I was all set to chill here. The girls were super excited to be coming over. I figured worst case scenario was he could hang on the couch while the girls and I got our creative energies flowing and if all else failed, we could watch Charlotte's Web from On Demand. He's such a ball buster and a buzz kill. Just kidding. He's totally right that my place is a little small for all of us to hang all day and have the other peeps over for the bbq. You're not supposed to think of what could be. You are supposed to focus on what is. Lessens the disappointment and frustration. Live in the here and now. Embrace life. Live it. So, here's to Plan B and a big thank ya' shout out to the powers that be for reminding me to go with the flow, to not over think. To just be. Peace and Love Peeps.